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കൊടുക്കാത്ത ഭർത്താവിനോട് മാസംതോറും കൃത്യമായ തുക ചെലവിന് കൊടുക്കുന്നതിന് മെയിന്റനൻസ് ഓർഡർ അഥവാ ജീവനാശ ഉത്തരവ് ഈ നിയമപ്രകാരം ലഭിക്കുന്നതാണ്.
ഭർത്താവിന് പുതിയ കൂട്ടുകാരിയെത്തുന്നതോടെ ഭർത്തൃമനസ്സിൽ നിന്നും പടിയിറക്കപ്പെടുന്ന ഭാര്യയെ സംരക്ഷിക്കുന്നതിന് ,ഭർത്താവ് വിവാഹമോചനം നേടിയാലും അവളുടെ മരണം വരെ ഭർത്താവുമായി പങ്കിട്ടുപാർത്ത ഗൃഹത്തിൽ തുടരുന്നതിന് ഈ നിയമം റെസിഡന്റ്സ് ഓർഡർ അഥവാ താമസ ഉത്തരവ് നൽകുന്നു.വിധവകളാകുന്ന സ്തീകൾ ഭർത്തൃഗൃഹത്തിൽ നിന്ന് ഒഴിവാക്കപ്പെടാതിരിക്കാൻ ഈ നിയമം താമസ ഉത്തരവിന്റെ രൂപത്തിൽ സുരക്ഷാ കവചമായി നിലകൊള്ളുന്നു.
ഭാര്യയ്ക്കോ മക്കൾക്കോ ജീവന് ഭീഷണിയുണ്ടാകുന്ന സാഹചര്യങ്ങളിൽ ഭർത്താവിനെ ഗൃഹത്തിൽ നിന്നും ഇറക്കി വിടുന്നതിനും ഈ നിയമത്തിലെ സംരക്ഷണ ഉത്തരവിന് സാധിക്കുന്നതാണ്.
ഈ നിയമപ്രകാരം ആവലാതിക്കാരിക്ക് നേരിട്ടോ ബന്ധുക്കൾ മുഖേനയോ ജില്ലാ വനിതാ പ്രൊട്ടക്ഷൻ ഓഫീസർ മുഖേനയോ ഗാർഹിക അതിക്രമം നടന്ന സ്ഥലത്തെയോ ആവലാതിക്കാരി അഭയം തേടിയ സ്ഥലത്തെയോ ഫസ്റ്റ് ക്ലാസ്സ് ജുഡീഷ്യൽ മജിസ്ട്രേറ്റ് കോടതി മുമ്പാകെ പരാതി സമർപ്പിക്കാവുന്നതാണ്
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